Life Happens: the author of life VS the victim of life

4 comments

When life happens, you can be either the author of your life or the victim of it. Those are your only 2 choices. There’s nothing in-between. This may sounds harsh, but its true…every day we choose one ‘road’ or another, and the consequences follow us forever. 

If you want to be the author of your life:

See the problem (let’s do it!) -> Find solution (what can i do?) -> OWN IT (say: its up to me!) -> Acknowledge reality (ok, so this is the way it is) -> Seek reality (what is really happening?)

If you want to suffer as a victim:

Avoid reality (ask no question)Fight reality (that is NOT how I see it!)BLAME (if you all just do your job ffs!)Personal excuses (its not my job, bye)Wait and HopeHope and Wait (ahh, if it was meant to be – it’ll happen)

Looks tough, isn’t it? But remember, no-one is born as a victim. It is always an attitude and approach! 

DO NOT FEAR REALITY!!

‘Nobody who ever gave his best regretted it’, George Halas 

victory

From the book ‘The One Thing’, Gary Keller and Jay Papasan
Image – Google 


Next post – Affirmations for the coffee table

4 comments on “Life Happens: the author of life VS the victim of life”

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.