Life Happens: the author of life VS the victim of life

When life happens, you can be either the author of your life or the victim of it. Those are your only 2 choices. There’s nothing in-between. This may sounds harsh, but its true…every day we choose one ‘road’ or another, and the consequences follow us forever. 

If you want to be the author of your life:

See the problem (let’s do it!) -> Find solution (what can i do?) -> OWN IT (say: its up to me!) -> Acknowledge reality (ok, so this is the way it is) -> Seek reality (what is really happening?)

If you want to suffer as a victim:

Avoid reality (ask no question)Fight reality (that is NOT how I see it!)BLAME (if you all just do your job ffs!)Personal excuses (its not my job, bye)Wait and HopeHope and Wait (ahh, if it was meant to be – it’ll happen)

Looks tough, isn’t it? But remember, no-one is born as a victim. It is always an attitude and approach! 


‘Nobody who ever gave his best regretted it’, George Halas 


From the book ‘The One Thing’, Gary Keller and Jay Papasan
Image – Google 

Next post – Affirmations for the coffee table

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